You’d think, having gone through so much, that the kids here
at MITS would have attachment issues. You’d think, having been abandoned by
their moms and dads, grandparents, aunts and uncles, they’d have trust issues.
You’d think, having begged on the streets for a piece of your trash for their
dinner, and being scorned over and over again, that they would be skeptical of
people who come and go.
They don’t have attachment issues, they trust
from the beginning, and they love whole heartedly for as long as they have you
around. Yes, they have been forever changed by what they’ve gone
through, but every time a visitor comes, even for just a week, the students
throw themselves into their welcome. They ask for one thing in return – though
the request is not verbal. Their desire to be loved, accepted, and nurtured,
though silent, is felt as strongly as if they were shouting the words at you.
Their shy hugs, their handshakes, their excitement when you read a book aloud
to them…it speaks volumes. Don’t take for granted the small expressions of love
you receive every day. To you it may seem small, that smile as you enter the
office, or that hug of greeting you received from your friend, but to these
kids, that is all they want, to know they are loved and accepted.
I'm so touched by your posts, Taylor! I told Jerry it makes me want to hop on a plane and join you! I know you are blessing those beautiful kids and they are blessing you. So happy about that!
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